Building the love part 4

Hi wonderful friends, hope you all are enjoying my posts how to love in your relationship. This post will be looking at another important factor in showing love in your relationship; COMMUNICARION. Constant communication enhances relationship positively; you will feel forgotten if your partner fails to be constant in his or her communication ratio. The type of communication that improves relationship is the one I call crazy communication. Both of you have to be crazy in the way you guys communicate and can you guys do this?

True love is not about money but about satisfaction. There is this communication hunger for satisfaction in you and also in your partners list of needs to satisfy, just the way we have hunger for sex, attention, desire, romance etc, there’s also hunger for communication which must be satisfied for your relationship to grow. Spend your last cash to satisfy your partners hunger for communication. There is near and far communication. You both must satisfy each other’s hunger for communication by communicating on a daily bases. If you are calling him or her, spend more than one hour a day talking on phone, that’s for distance communication. Did I hear you say it’s expensive? Well, you have to go hungry to pay for your air time so as to communicate, well, I do it sometimes because I love her, so, you too can do it. That’s makes it crazy, the way you both do it and what you have to pass through to do it. Anything less than this will put the relationship in danger, no matter how you both claim to understand the situation on ground.

 In my next post, I will talk about near communication, it’s very important, please don’t miss it. Your comment is highly welcome, thanks for reading. Until then, make the communication crazy.

Building the love Part 3

Hi friends, today, I will look at ATTENTION in your relationship. Attention is another important factor in your relationship and I tell you, lack of it has caused serious problems and has broken marriages and dates. This is because the most desirable person you or your partner wants to spend time with is you or your partner as long as there is love in the relationship. Look, there is no excuse for your poor attention rate to your partner, no matter what you do; this is because attention is all about how you give it to your partner than how often you give it. Did I hear you say what my problem is? If you are good at given attention, no matter how little it is, will make lots and lots of differences.

One minute of your time to give your partner a ‘Hello’ is not too tasking for you, even if you are the president of the whole world. In that so called busy state of yours, if you pick your cell phone and dial your partner’s number and tell your partner that you are thinking about him or her, it will surely touch your partner and make your partner to feel attended to.

The question is how can you give attention to your partner? This can be achieved by texting, calling, emailing in a reasonable amount everyday and the most important of them all; spending physical time with the person so long you both stay in the same province or state. Never allow your work to consume your whole time, find time to take him or her out and spend romantic time with your partner. As you change your attention level with your partner, I wish you best of luck as you know how to love in your relationship. Thanks. comments are welcomed.

Building the love part 2

Hello, are you there? Well, in the part one of this blog I said the simple calculation for strong relationship is that the end product of love is respect while the end product of respect is love. Love and respect works together. Today, I will be talking about another important factor that promotes love and respect in your relationship. I also spoke about two factors in the part one of this blog; UNDERSTANDING and TOLERANCE, the next factor is EXPRESSION. Expression is defined as the way of communicating thoughts or feelings to somebody. Relationship without communication is dead. One of the problems ladies have in relationship is lack of expression, they hardly express how they feel, they believe if they express their thoughts and feelings in the relationship that the other partner may start to neglect them. Some guys also have this problem as well but ladies suffer it more and the lack of expression has destroyed many relationships or has reduced the amount of fun in it. Hello, take a breath, let continue.

You may be convinced right inside you that you express your thoughts and feelings to your partner as long as you do say ‘I love you’ to him or her. You are totally wrong because it does not end there. Telling your partner that you love him or her is almost a common thing these days, love and respect are very unique, so, everything done and said in your relationship must be unique.

How do you express in your relationship to make it unique? Make it crazy, yes, if it lacks craziness then, it’s not unique. How many times do you say ‘I love you’, how do you say it and when? What do you do for your partner and how? How often do you make your partner feel special and wanted by you? How do you act when you see your partner even if both of you just met some minutes ago? Do you express your fear of losing your partner?

Now, looking at the first question, which deals with how many times you tell your partner that you him or her. To be sincere, you have say it as often as possible, always strive to be the first to say it, take your cell phone and just text to your partner ‘I love you’ to cover two pages, hmm, are you surprised? Don’t be, expression is crazy when it comes to what you want to keep forever. Call your partner and tell him or her ‘I love you’ and drop the call, if both of you are eating, just pause for a while and look at your partner eye ball to eye ball and if he or she ask you why you are looking at him or her, just say ‘I love you so much’, say it anywhere, especially when least expected.

 I must advise you to express your thoughts and feelings well and don’t be scared that it will drive your partner away but I assure you, it will bring your partner closer if he or she loves and respect you. See you soon. your comment is appreciated, thanks.

Become every woman’s heart desire

            Have you ever dreamt of becoming every woman’s heart desire?  Well, if your answer is yes, then, I must confess that you must read through this blog. Believe it or not, if you are yet to attain that level of being admired by every woman far and near, then, you are yet to build a remarkable relationship. Women love to be admired by others, you see, if those ladies who know your woman dose not jealous her because she is in a relationship with you not because you can spend but because of what you stand for, then, you are yet to seal your relationship. Every woman should dream to be like your woman base on how you treat her always, if your woman is loved by you, then, you are assured of stable and lasting relationship. When women enjoy best of love, they produce their best of love in return; they respect you as a lord and pray all night never to lose you. What am I saying? Every woman hates complain by their man. You see, you must try as much as possible never to complain in the relationship, even if you must, you have to minimize it to a very low level.

            Do you get me? What I mean is that when things go wrong, look in to her eyes and tell her sweet things like; ‘Baby, I love you, don’t worry, things will get fine, it wasn’t your fault, I think is mine....’ she will be calm and I tell you, she will take corrections, I’m talking from experience please. When you complain to your woman, she becomes afraid of doing things, she shrinks and fears committing errors, but when you admit the fault and encourage her, she will give you not only her best attitudes but also best sex. Always be soft in handling her, cool girls who are serious about any relationship they go in to loves and admire soft guys, she prefers to call you baby than you calling her baby but she may never tell you, most of them don't.

Four romantic skills you must have

            There are four romantic skills men must have so as to maintain a flourishing relationship with their chosen partner. Being romantic is all about knowing how to touch her, or kiss her or things like that, is about doing sweet things. If you have these four skills which I know melts down the heart of any woman, you are on your way in making the love grow stronger day by day. I had the opportunity to meet with many ladies and I asked them what aspect of romantic show out they expect from their men? They told me all and I categorized them in to four skills, if you don’t have these skills naturally, then, you should learn how to use them, let say you pretend to have them and save your relationship. If you have these skills, you will always make her to day dream all day.

            Now, what are the skills? The first one is the skill to be able to shed tears. Did I hear you scream? Well, if you must get inside the heart of your woman, then, you must learn how to shed tears. If you want her mind changed over something, please, shed tears, nothing touches ladies like the tears from men, especially someone they love. No matter how hard you may be, try and shed tears when it comes to critical issues.

The next skill is the ability to kneel down; did I hear you scream wao? If you must touch her heart, make it softer, then, you must kneel down, you may pretend to be serious, she will fall, especially when it matters and where it matters. Please, kneel down and plead for her to change her mind or forgive you. Hello, are you with me? Well, I will continue in my next blog. Drop your comment if you are touched please. I will also teach you how to use these skills. Until then, take care.

building the love

            You have to accept the facts that you as a man and you as a woman have your separate roles to play the relationship; the bible said that a man should love his wife and a woman should respect her husband. This is a simple statement of facts and structure which equates that love is respect and respect is love. Do you understand the meaning of my statement of calculations? It simply means that out of the abundance of love comes respect and out of the abundance of respect comes love, it means that both the man and the woman have to love and respect each other.

            Understanding the nature of whom you are going out with is very important, even if you both are married. Love is unique and must be respected for being unique, if you love, you tolerate and sacrifice, that’s love and respect. If your man does not want something, stop it, don’t see it as if he is trying to control you, if he tells you that, seeing you around many men makes him jealous, please do away with it. If your woman does not want you to do certain things, please do away with them, that’s love and respect; it’s love because you don’t feel like doing it but you have to do it because you love him or her and it’s respect because, you respect his or her weakness.

            See my friend, nothing is too much to do for love, understand is one of the key factors needed to make the love grow stronger every day; it is understanding that leads to tolerance and commitments. Please, try and love to extend of sacrificing your likes for his or her own likes and respect his or her fears and weakness he /she may have over love. My next blog post will be on fear for love, I must tell you the whole truth, everybody has one thing he or she fears about love. Until then, take care my friend.

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