Sunday 27 November 2011

How to strengthen your relationship 3

Do something stupid for her, can you?
Hay guys, as I promised in the last article, I will be talking about how to do something stupid just to surprise her. Look, you have to be a Romeo and Jack in Romeo and Juliet and Titanic movies respectively to be able to do some of these I will be discussing here.
Can you wait for your lady outside her apartment from night till morning just say happy birthday to her? I mean you have to take the risk of sleeping outside her apartment. Can you go one day to her apartment and clean up all the rooms and do all the washing when she is not around? Can you just decide to buy her any form of cards at least 200 in number and arrange them on her bed when she is not celebrating anything? Just buy cards that celebrate her beauty or love for you. Can you take her on a date and call people to sing for her? Can you buy her things in an amazing way (please, if you need the various specific ways to buy her things in an amazing way, just contact me or show interest), can you take almost a day to just do texting not calling but do high number of texting, let say, nothing less than 50 text messages? Can you organize a small gathering without her aware of it just to appreciate her for loving you? Can you be beaten by rain just for her not to be beaten by rain?
Do you guys know that there are still many things that appears stupid to do to surprise her and make her go WAO?, Please, if you can do all or some of these, she will bet her life in the relationship and she can go to any length to defend you and the relationship. Please do the surprise, ladies love it with passion. Best of luck.

How to strengthen your relationship 2

The place of surprise in your relationship
Hello friends, this article is for both parties in the relationship. I will be discussing on the role of surprise in the relationship. Any relationship without love is dead and how can there be love in the relationship when both or one of the parties don’t feel loved? There are ways you can make her feel loved and also ways you can make him feel loved in the relationship and you both will continue to smile. The truth of the matter is that we all love surprises in one way or the other and if you don’t know, surprise is one way one can strengthen his or her relationship. This system works well on ladies but also work on guys as well. No matter how dead your relationship maybe, if you can reserve a day to do something surprising, your partner will definitely fall in love with you again.
Ladies love romantic surprises that can make them go WAO! While guys love any form of surprise that depicts respect and believe. Now let look at examples of romantic surprises which can make her to love you the more and bring back glamour in the relationship include buying of gifts, doing something that appears stupid I will talk on this later, having a record of important dates in the relationship, knowing her hubbies and her birth date, involving her in your decisions, taking her out once in a while etc. All these, if well implemented will surely make her continue to put in her best in the relationship.
For guys, preparing their favourite meals without asking them makes them feel loved, buying of quality gifts such as wrist watch, perfume, always applaud their endeavour (believe kind of surprise) no matter how poor its sounds and one more important one, if you can, try give him love making when he least expected you to do so. Best of luck friends.

Saturday 26 November 2011

how to strengthen your relationship

Make her feel special; save your relationship
Hello friends, is being a long time. Today I will be looking at how to make her feel very special which will surely strengthen your relationship and make the love grow stronger. Are you feeling bad and insecure about your woman? Look, the only solution to this kind of experience is by making her feel very special without looking back. Women love to be made feel like the only girl in the world. If you want her to be very serious with you, please, give her the best of special treatments and later withdraw some of them and she will come begging. After some short periods, return to making her feel very special and she will crab and hold you so tight so that you won’t stop the treatment. The issue now is how to make a lady feel very special?
A. Whenever she is with you try as much as possible to make sure that you show her that she is the only one existing as long as you are concerned. Give her full concentration.
B. As often as possible, please tell her how beautiful she is. Tell her using different styles; whisper it to her ear, say it in front of her fellow ladies, write it to her, call her only to tell her that she is very beautiful.
C. Spend quality time with her
D. Do some surprising things for her such as cooking for her, washing for her and doing her hubbies.
E. Don’t ever hide her, ladies love an open relationship.
F. Be very sweet and tell her stories, buy her gifts and act babyish. Ladies love their lover to be like their own baby. You know that ladies love babies.
G. Always carry her when she least expects them. Ladies love to be carried.
All these will make her feel very special and she will be afraid of losing you because no other person will make her feel this way. Treat your lady fine, because she worth it. talk to you all soon

Sunday 6 November 2011

BUILDING THE LOVE part 6

Hi friends, is being long, how are you all doing? Well, this post will dwell on CONFLICTS in relationship as I promised in one of the posts I did. Conflicts in relationship are never a new thing and will never be! That you are passing through conflicts now does not mean your relationship is not the best in the world, it may be, it may not, but what matters is the management of the conflicts and not the cause of the conflicts. If you love your relationship and you want to show love in your relationship, please don’t be scared of conflicts because they must come. Well, I want to look at the advantages of conflicts to a relationship.
Conflict will give both of you the opportunity to tell each other the actual problem with the relationship, it creates the avenue for a better and stronger relationship, it makes you both say the worst things to each other, thereby, making you and your partner to realize you both areas of strengths and weakness. Can you see what conflict can do to your relationship? Face your conflict, please, never be scared or tired of being the initiator of the peace. Both of you will get to know and respect each other well after each conflicts, if you guys wants to make love, it will be fun and better after each conflicts, the relationship will be stronger after it. Some partners run away from conflicts, they hide their anger; thinking they are doing their relationship any good, look, when you get it on your neck, make him or her know about your grievances. Please note that, violent type of conflict is not a good idea and if after every conflict in your relationship, both of you don’t get one or more of the advantages of conflicts in a relationship I listed above, please make a move to end the relationship. Until next time, keep showing love in the relationship and make the love grow stronger. Take care, please, comments are welcomed.

Tuesday 1 November 2011

Building the love 5

Hello friends, how are you all doing today? Well, I will be talking on the other questions I asked in my last post on part two of building the love. Today, I will explain to you why you should make your partner feel special and why you should do it as often as possible, in fact, on a daily bases. Remember I'm still talking about EXPRESSION.
You partner enjoys it when you tell him or her how handsome or beautiful he or she is, come to think of it, if our Creator loves praise and we are made in His Image, tell me why we won't like to be praised. Telling someone how good and cute the person looks is a form of praise, tell your partner that he or she is looking very attractive, killing, cute, sweet, beautiful, and handsome, and tell him or her that there is no one like him or her in to you on this planet earth.
Women enjoy praises but I tell you the truth, men also enjoy it equal. Make your man feel important because if you don't do that, some else will do it for you. Make your woman feel very important because if don't, someone else will do that for you. Once in a while, express to your partner the way you appreciate his or her coming to your life, list out the positive impact done to you because of his coming, let your partner know that he or she is doing a very good job even if your partner is below expectations, tell him or her the little good done to you because of your partner's coming in to your life. The best solution to poor performance in any relationship is appreciation, you desire your partner to do greater than he or she is doing, then, appreciates him or her for those done. In my culture, we believe that if you praise me for the little one I have done, I will be inspired to do more. You see why appreciating your partner is very important.
Make your partner feel wanted by you, you do this by telling your partner how much you miss him or her, how you were lonely when he or she was not around, expression is the key, it’s very important in your relationship. See you guys soon. Thanks for reading.