Sunday 6 November 2011

BUILDING THE LOVE part 6

Hi friends, is being long, how are you all doing? Well, this post will dwell on CONFLICTS in relationship as I promised in one of the posts I did. Conflicts in relationship are never a new thing and will never be! That you are passing through conflicts now does not mean your relationship is not the best in the world, it may be, it may not, but what matters is the management of the conflicts and not the cause of the conflicts. If you love your relationship and you want to show love in your relationship, please don’t be scared of conflicts because they must come. Well, I want to look at the advantages of conflicts to a relationship.
Conflict will give both of you the opportunity to tell each other the actual problem with the relationship, it creates the avenue for a better and stronger relationship, it makes you both say the worst things to each other, thereby, making you and your partner to realize you both areas of strengths and weakness. Can you see what conflict can do to your relationship? Face your conflict, please, never be scared or tired of being the initiator of the peace. Both of you will get to know and respect each other well after each conflicts, if you guys wants to make love, it will be fun and better after each conflicts, the relationship will be stronger after it. Some partners run away from conflicts, they hide their anger; thinking they are doing their relationship any good, look, when you get it on your neck, make him or her know about your grievances. Please note that, violent type of conflict is not a good idea and if after every conflict in your relationship, both of you don’t get one or more of the advantages of conflicts in a relationship I listed above, please make a move to end the relationship. Until next time, keep showing love in the relationship and make the love grow stronger. Take care, please, comments are welcomed.

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