You have to accept the facts that you as a man and you as a woman have your separate roles to play the relationship; the bible said that a man should love his wife and a woman should respect her husband. This is a simple statement of facts and structure which equates that love is respect and respect is love. Do you understand the meaning of my statement of calculations? It simply means that out of the abundance of love comes respect and out of the abundance of respect comes love, it means that both the man and the woman have to love and respect each other.
Understanding the nature of whom you are going out with is very important, even if you both are married. Love is unique and must be respected for being unique, if you love, you tolerate and sacrifice, that’s love and respect. If your man does not want something, stop it, don’t see it as if he is trying to control you, if he tells you that, seeing you around many men makes him jealous, please do away with it. If your woman does not want you to do certain things, please do away with them, that’s love and respect; it’s love because you don’t feel like doing it but you have to do it because you love him or her and it’s respect because, you respect his or her weakness.
See my friend, nothing is too much to do for love, understand is one of the key factors needed to make the love grow stronger every day; it is understanding that leads to tolerance and commitments. Please, try and love to extend of sacrificing your likes for his or her own likes and respect his or her fears and weakness he /she may have over love. My next blog post will be on fear for love, I must tell you the whole truth, everybody has one thing he or she fears about love. Until then, take care my friend.
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