Every girl enjoy feeling special this Christmas period, you don’t need millions to make your partner feel special. depending on the type of girl you are dating some girls like surprises and in this case is not the gift that matters but the manner of presentation especially the rich kind of girl, so if you love this girl, spend an hour thinking on how to surprise this girl with the best manner of presentation especially when she list expects it. But if your girl is not so buoyant, the manner of presentation is not important but giving her money to shop will be the best gift but if you don’t have the money buy her a gift you think she needs no matter how little and she will never forget this Christmas. MERRY CHRISTMAS.
Hello friends, I believe in the power of love and I want to show you how you can show love in your relationship. If you love your partner then, you should try as much as possible to ask them to tell you what they so much love in the opposite sex. This is because if you don’t know them, they will snatch your partner away from you. Take this very serious, no, matter how your partner loves you, if some of those things he or she admires in the opposite sex, I mean those things that turns him or her on, if you don’t have them, your partner maybe admiring them at your back when he or she sees them in another person.
I don’t know if you are getting me, what I’m saying is very important, so, I will teach you how to find them out because, most times, partners don’t tell their partners about it. First of all, let find what these things could be. They are what turns your partner on and makes him or her feel so attracted to you. They are not the reason your partner fail in love with you, well, they could be. Take for instance, in my own case, I love dance from the opposite sex, it excites me a lot especially when they dance so good and I love songs from a good female voice. These two things make me crazy, they make me go crazy and love her more. I love these things before I found my true love and I told my lady about them and she does them now. She learn to do some of them and it makes me go deep into the world of emotion each time she does them.
The truth is that most partners hide these things for reasons I’m yet to know, it took me months before I unveil them to her. Ask your partner about them whenever your partner is very happy or you both are having fun. Best of luck, cheers.
Hi friends, today, I will be writing on the place of colour in your relationship. Do you know that colours are very powerful? Yes, they are very powerful; the truth is that your partner is in love with one colour or the other. Everyone has one favourite colour or colours; it is now left for you to find it. Your partner’s favourite colour is that colour that melts down his or her hearts whenever he or she is in bad mood. Let look at what your partner’s favourites colours can do for you as you drive further to show love in tour relationship.
Colour enhances forgiveness: do you know this? Well, if you make your partner angry and your partner is finding it hard to forgive you why not try using his favourite colour to wrap up a gift and write on it ‘I’m so sorry my love’. That will surely help. Your partner does not have power over how he or she should react whenever he or she sees his or best colour. Try it.
Colour restores lost or dying love: absolutely truth, love can be restored by the presence of colours. Have you ever tried decorating your house or room with your partner’s favourite colours? Take note that you have to do them when your partner is not expecting them. Colours can provoke your partner to love you again. As I said initially, no one has power over how he or she should react when the person sees his or her favourite colour. This can work very well in marriages especially those with weakened love or lost completely.
Colour can bring back happiness. Well, for me, whenever I see my favourite colours, I find myself being very exciting and happy. My favourite colour is white and my Love normally calls me her Angel whenever I wear anything with white. I try not to be angry because of my colour. Are you wondering why? Well, I can’t help it, you also can’t, and that is the nature of things. Go and make good use of your partner’s favourite colour(s). Thanks and see you soonest.
Do something stupid for her, can you?
Hay guys, as I promised in the last article, I will be talking about how to do something stupid just to surprise her. Look, you have to be a Romeo and Jack in Romeo and Juliet and Titanic movies respectively to be able to do some of these I will be discussing here.
Can you wait for your lady outside her apartment from night till morning just say happy birthday to her? I mean you have to take the risk of sleeping outside her apartment. Can you go one day to her apartment and clean up all the rooms and do all the washing when she is not around? Can you just decide to buy her any form of cards at least 200 in number and arrange them on her bed when she is not celebrating anything? Just buy cards that celebrate her beauty or love for you. Can you take her on a date and call people to sing for her? Can you buy her things in an amazing way (please, if you need the various specific ways to buy her things in an amazing way, just contact me or show interest), can you take almost a day to just do texting not calling but do high number of texting, let say, nothing less than 50 text messages? Can you organize a small gathering without her aware of it just to appreciate her for loving you? Can you be beaten by rain just for her not to be beaten by rain?
Do you guys know that there are still many things that appears stupid to do to surprise her and make her go WAO?, Please, if you can do all or some of these, she will bet her life in the relationship and she can go to any length to defend you and the relationship. Please do the surprise, ladies love it with passion. Best of luck.
The place of surprise in your relationship
Hello friends, this article is for both parties in the relationship. I will be discussing on the role of surprise in the relationship. Any relationship without love is dead and how can there be love in the relationship when both or one of the parties don’t feel loved? There are ways you can make her feel loved and also ways you can make him feel loved in the relationship and you both will continue to smile. The truth of the matter is that we all love surprises in one way or the other and if you don’t know, surprise is one way one can strengthen his or her relationship. This system works well on ladies but also work on guys as well. No matter how dead your relationship maybe, if you can reserve a day to do something surprising, your partner will definitely fall in love with you again.
Ladies love romantic surprises that can make them go WAO! While guys love any form of surprise that depicts respect and believe. Now let look at examples of romantic surprises which can make her to love you the more and bring back glamour in the relationship include buying of gifts, doing something that appears stupid I will talk on this later, having a record of important dates in the relationship, knowing her hubbies and her birth date, involving her in your decisions, taking her out once in a while etc. All these, if well implemented will surely make her continue to put in her best in the relationship.
For guys, preparing their favourite meals without asking them makes them feel loved, buying of quality gifts such as wrist watch, perfume, always applaud their endeavour (believe kind of surprise) no matter how poor its sounds and one more important one, if you can, try give him love making when he least expected you to do so. Best of luck friends.
Make her feel special; save your relationship
Hello friends, is being a long time. Today I will be looking at how to make her feel very special which will surely strengthen your relationship and make the love grow stronger. Are you feeling bad and insecure about your woman? Look, the only solution to this kind of experience is by making her feel very special without looking back. Women love to be made feel like the only girl in the world. If you want her to be very serious with you, please, give her the best of special treatments and later withdraw some of them and she will come begging. After some short periods, return to making her feel very special and she will crab and hold you so tight so that you won’t stop the treatment. The issue now is how to make a lady feel very special?
A. Whenever she is with you try as much as possible to make sure that you show her that she is the only one existing as long as you are concerned. Give her full concentration.
B. As often as possible, please tell her how beautiful she is. Tell her using different styles; whisper it to her ear, say it in front of her fellow ladies, write it to her, call her only to tell her that she is very beautiful.
C. Spend quality time with her
D. Do some surprising things for her such as cooking for her, washing for her and doing her hubbies.
E. Don’t ever hide her, ladies love an open relationship.
F. Be very sweet and tell her stories, buy her gifts and act babyish. Ladies love their lover to be like their own baby. You know that ladies love babies.
G. Always carry her when she least expects them. Ladies love to be carried.
All these will make her feel very special and she will be afraid of losing you because no other person will make her feel this way. Treat your lady fine, because she worth it. talk to you all soon
Hi friends, is being long, how are you all doing? Well, this post will dwell on CONFLICTS in relationship as I promised in one of the posts I did. Conflicts in relationship are never a new thing and will never be! That you are passing through conflicts now does not mean your relationship is not the best in the world, it may be, it may not, but what matters is the management of the conflicts and not the cause of the conflicts. If you love your relationship and you want to show love in your relationship, please don’t be scared of conflicts because they must come. Well, I want to look at the advantages of conflicts to a relationship.
Conflict will give both of you the opportunity to tell each other the actual problem with the relationship, it creates the avenue for a better and stronger relationship, it makes you both say the worst things to each other, thereby, making you and your partner to realize you both areas of strengths and weakness. Can you see what conflict can do to your relationship? Face your conflict, please, never be scared or tired of being the initiator of the peace. Both of you will get to know and respect each other well after each conflicts, if you guys wants to make love, it will be fun and better after each conflicts, the relationship will be stronger after it. Some partners run away from conflicts, they hide their anger; thinking they are doing their relationship any good, look, when you get it on your neck, make him or her know about your grievances. Please note that, violent type of conflict is not a good idea and if after every conflict in your relationship, both of you don’t get one or more of the advantages of conflicts in a relationship I listed above, please make a move to end the relationship. Until next time, keep showing love in the relationship and make the love grow stronger. Take care, please, comments are welcomed.
Hello friends, how are you all doing today? Well, I will be talking on the other questions I asked in my last post on part two of building the love. Today, I will explain to you why you should make your partner feel special and why you should do it as often as possible, in fact, on a daily bases. Remember I'm still talking about EXPRESSION.
You partner enjoys it when you tell him or her how handsome or beautiful he or she is, come to think of it, if our Creator loves praise and we are made in His Image, tell me why we won't like to be praised. Telling someone how good and cute the person looks is a form of praise, tell your partner that he or she is looking very attractive, killing, cute, sweet, beautiful, and handsome, and tell him or her that there is no one like him or her in to you on this planet earth.
Women enjoy praises but I tell you the truth, men also enjoy it equal. Make your man feel important because if you don't do that, some else will do it for you. Make your woman feel very important because if don't, someone else will do that for you. Once in a while, express to your partner the way you appreciate his or her coming to your life, list out the positive impact done to you because of his coming, let your partner know that he or she is doing a very good job even if your partner is below expectations, tell him or her the little good done to you because of your partner's coming in to your life. The best solution to poor performance in any relationship is appreciation, you desire your partner to do greater than he or she is doing, then, appreciates him or her for those done. In my culture, we believe that if you praise me for the little one I have done, I will be inspired to do more. You see why appreciating your partner is very important.
Make your partner feel wanted by you, you do this by telling your partner how much you miss him or her, how you were lonely when he or she was not around, expression is the key, it’s very important in your relationship. See you guys soon. Thanks for reading.
Hi wonderful friends, hope you all are enjoying my posts how to love in your relationship. This post will be looking at another important factor in showing love in your relationship; COMMUNICARION. Constant communication enhances relationship positively; you will feel forgotten if your partner fails to be constant in his or her communication ratio. The type of communication that improves relationship is the one I call crazy communication. Both of you have to be crazy in the way you guys communicate and can you guys do this?
True love is not about money but about satisfaction. There is this communication hunger for satisfaction in you and also in your partners list of needs to satisfy, just the way we have hunger for sex, attention, desire, romance etc, there’s also hunger for communication which must be satisfied for your relationship to grow. Spend your last cash to satisfy your partners hunger for communication. There is near and far communication. You both must satisfy each other’s hunger for communication by communicating on a daily bases. If you are calling him or her, spend more than one hour a day talking on phone, that’s for distance communication. Did I hear you say it’s expensive? Well, you have to go hungry to pay for your air time so as to communicate, well, I do it sometimes because I love her, so, you too can do it. That’s makes it crazy, the way you both do it and what you have to pass through to do it. Anything less than this will put the relationship in danger, no matter how you both claim to understand the situation on ground.
In my next post, I will talk about near communication, it’s very important, please don’t miss it. Your comment is highly welcome, thanks for reading. Until then, make the communication crazy.
Hi friends, today, I will look at ATTENTION in your relationship. Attention is another important factor in your relationship and I tell you, lack of it has caused serious problems and has broken marriages and dates. This is because the most desirable person you or your partner wants to spend time with is you or your partner as long as there is love in the relationship. Look, there is no excuse for your poor attention rate to your partner, no matter what you do; this is because attention is all about how you give it to your partner than how often you give it. Did I hear you say what my problem is? If you are good at given attention, no matter how little it is, will make lots and lots of differences.
One minute of your time to give your partner a ‘Hello’ is not too tasking for you, even if you are the president of the whole world. In that so called busy state of yours, if you pick your cell phone and dial your partner’s number and tell your partner that you are thinking about him or her, it will surely touch your partner and make your partner to feel attended to.
The question is how can you give attention to your partner? This can be achieved by texting, calling, emailing in a reasonable amount everyday and the most important of them all; spending physical time with the person so long you both stay in the same province or state. Never allow your work to consume your whole time, find time to take him or her out and spend romantic time with your partner. As you change your attention level with your partner, I wish you best of luck as you know how to love in your relationship. Thanks. comments are welcomed.
Hello, are you there? Well, in the part one of this blog I said the simple calculation for strong relationship is that the end product of love is respect while the end product of respect is love. Love and respect works together. Today, I will be talking about another important factor that promotes love and respect in your relationship. I also spoke about two factors in the part one of this blog; UNDERSTANDING and TOLERANCE, the next factor is EXPRESSION. Expression is defined as the way of communicating thoughts or feelings to somebody. Relationship without communication is dead. One of the problems ladies have in relationship is lack of expression, they hardly express how they feel, they believe if they express their thoughts and feelings in the relationship that the other partner may start to neglect them. Some guys also have this problem as well but ladies suffer it more and the lack of expression has destroyed many relationships or has reduced the amount of fun in it. Hello, take a breath, let continue.
You may be convinced right inside you that you express your thoughts and feelings to your partner as long as you do say ‘I love you’ to him or her. You are totally wrong because it does not end there. Telling your partner that you love him or her is almost a common thing these days, love and respect are very unique, so, everything done and said in your relationship must be unique.
How do you express in your relationship to make it unique? Make it crazy, yes, if it lacks craziness then, it’s not unique. How many times do you say ‘I love you’, how do you say it and when? What do you do for your partner and how? How often do you make your partner feel special and wanted by you? How do you act when you see your partner even if both of you just met some minutes ago? Do you express your fear of losing your partner?
Now, looking at the first question, which deals with how many times you tell your partner that you him or her. To be sincere, you have say it as often as possible, always strive to be the first to say it, take your cell phone and just text to your partner ‘I love you’ to cover two pages, hmm, are you surprised? Don’t be, expression is crazy when it comes to what you want to keep forever. Call your partner and tell him or her ‘I love you’ and drop the call, if both of you are eating, just pause for a while and look at your partner eye ball to eye ball and if he or she ask you why you are looking at him or her, just say ‘I love you so much’, say it anywhere, especially when least expected.
I must advise you to express your thoughts and feelings well and don’t be scared that it will drive your partner away but I assure you, it will bring your partner closer if he or she loves and respect you. See you soon. your comment is appreciated, thanks.
Have you ever dreamt of becoming every woman’s heart desire?Well, if your answer is yes, then, I must confess that you must read through this blog. Believe it or not, if you are yet to attain that level of being admired by every woman far and near, then, you are yet to build a remarkable relationship. Women love to be admired by others, you see, if those ladies who know your woman dose not jealous her because she is in a relationship with you not because you can spend but because of what you stand for, then, you are yet to seal your relationship. Every woman should dream to be like your woman base on how you treat her always, if your woman is loved by you, then, you are assured of stable and lasting relationship. When women enjoy best of love, they produce their best of love in return; they respect you as a lord and pray all night never to lose you. What am I saying? Every woman hates complain by their man. You see, you must try as much as possible never to complain in the relationship, even if you must, you have to minimize it to a very low level.
Do you get me? What I mean is that when things go wrong, look in to her eyes and tell her sweet things like; ‘Baby, I love you, don’t worry, things will get fine, it wasn’t your fault, I think is mine....’ she will be calm and I tell you, she will take corrections, I’m talking from experience please. When you complain to your woman, she becomes afraid of doing things, she shrinks and fears committing errors, but when you admit the fault and encourage her, she will give you not only her best attitudes but also best sex. Always be soft in handling her, cool girls who are serious about any relationship they go in to loves and admire soft guys, she prefers to call you baby than you calling her baby but she may never tell you, most of them don't.
There are four romantic skills men must have so as to maintain a flourishing relationship with their chosen partner. Being romantic is all about knowing how to touch her, or kiss her or things like that, is about doing sweet things. If you have these four skills which I know melts down the heart of any woman, you are on your way in making the love grow stronger day by day. I had the opportunity to meet with many ladies and I asked them what aspect of romantic show out they expect from their men? They told me all and I categorized them in to four skills, if you don’t have these skills naturally, then, you should learn how to use them, let say you pretend to have them and save your relationship. If you have these skills, you will always make her to day dream all day.
Now, what are the skills? The first one is the skill to be able to shed tears. Did I hear you scream? Well, if you must get inside the heart of your woman, then, you must learn how to shed tears. If you want her mind changed over something, please, shed tears, nothing touches ladies like the tears from men, especially someone they love. No matter how hard you may be, try and shed tears when it comes to critical issues.
The next skill is the ability to kneel down; did I hear you scream wao? If you must touch her heart, make it softer, then, you must kneel down, you may pretend to be serious, she will fall, especially when it matters and where it matters. Please, kneel down and plead for her to change her mind or forgive you. Hello, are you with me? Well, I will continue in my next blog. Drop your comment if you are touched please. I will also teach you how to use these skills. Until then, take care.
You have to accept the facts that you as a man and you as a woman have your separate roles to play the relationship; the bible said that a man should love his wife and a woman should respect her husband. This is a simple statement of facts and structure which equates that love is respect and respect is love. Do you understand the meaning of my statement of calculations? It simply means that out of the abundance of love comes respect and out of the abundance of respect comes love, it means that both the man and the woman have to love and respect each other.
Understanding the nature of whom you are going out with is very important, even if you both are married. Love is unique and must be respected for being unique, if you love, you tolerate and sacrifice, that’s love and respect. If your man does not want something, stop it, don’t see it as if he is trying to control you, if he tells you that, seeing you around many men makes him jealous, please do away with it. If your woman does not want you to do certain things, please do away with them, that’s love and respect; it’s love because you don’t feel like doing it but you have to do it because you love him or her and it’s respect because, you respect his or her weakness.
See my friend, nothing is too much to do for love, understand is one of the key factors needed to make the love grow stronger every day; it is understanding that leads to tolerance and commitments. Please, try and love to extend of sacrificing your likes for his or her own likes and respect his or her fears and weakness he /she may have over love. My next blog post will be on fear for love, I must tell you the whole truth, everybody has one thing he or she fears about love. Until then, take care my friend.
