how to maintain the love in your relationship

                        There is a joke about love being blind when dating but seeing when married.

But the love flame in any relationship can be maintained if the partners follow these rules;

(1) The couples should try to maintain what attracted them to each other physically and socially, for instance, a woman who was slim before marriage should maintain the figure after marriage. Exercise and mind what you eat, do not look like his mother by gaining weight it irritates them and make them fill old. Also  women who were always dressing classic before marriage should continue with the culture, in fact whatever you think where among the things that attracted your partner to you should be maintained because a change in this can push your partner away from you. He may start looking for girls who wear what you used to before he got attracted to you like what you. Now you have him you should make more effort to have him to yourself by always maintaining or improving on what your partner like about you.

(2)Do not be selfish like most partners; pay attention to how your partner feels about what you want to do and reach a compromise. The relationship is between two persons. Selfishness that was what destroyed Kim kardashian marriage.

(3) Mind the hurtful things you say to your partner especially if he is a melancholy, verbal abuse can really destroy a relationship.

(4) Statistics has it that 80percent of couples do not enjoy their sex life. This is important especially when he have had sex with other people before meeting you. You have to read books about sex watch porn to learn how to give your partner great sex, with this your partner will keep running into your arms.

I hope you enjoyed this post; it can also be applied in premarital relationships. If you are so generous, why not share this post with your friends on twitter, face book, Google plus.